I know that financial issue is very delicate. But I never realize before that it would come up to this point.
The first time I encounter this problem was when the marriage plan was started. The whole financial thing was not a huge issue for my partner, but it is to me. I think it has something to do with the principle… hehe 🙂
My principle is not something I come up with. but based on my religion. before we can get married, we should attend this marriage preparation course. in that course, we were taught to have a single account for all the expenses and the wife should be the financial planner. Of course, it can be replaced if the wife is not capable to do financial planning.
The problem that we encounter ever since that my partner refuse the method. he prefers to have his own money (for things he wants to buy without my consent). I think it is against the “single account for all expenses” thing.
We haven’t deal on this matter yet. I hope God will help me.